This guide delves into the mechanics of friendship in Stardew Valley, explaining how to maximize relationships with villagers. Building strong bonds is crucial, whether aiming for friendship or romance. While conversation and gifting are key, not all interactions are equal.
The Heart System:
The in-game heart meter tracks friendship levels with each NPC. Reaching certain heart thresholds unlocks special events, mail rewards, and unique dialogue options. Each heart represents 250 friendship points.
Boosting Friendship:
The "Friendship 101" book, obtainable from the Prize Machine (9th prize) or the Bookseller (Year 3, 9% chance), permanently boosts friendship gains by 10%.
Point Values:
- Daily Interactions: Talking to an NPC yields +20 points (or +10 if they're busy). Ignoring an NPC results in a friendship decrease (-2 points/day, -10 with a bouquet given, -20 for a spouse).
- Bulletin Board Deliveries: Completing a delivery grants +150 points with the recipient.
- Gifting:
- Loved gifts: +80 points
- Liked gifts: +45 points
- Neutral gifts: +20 points
- Disliked gifts: -20 points
- Hated gifts: -40 points
- Winter Star Festival gifts: 5x points
- Birthday gifts: 8x points
Stardrop Tea: This universally loved gift grants +250 points (+750 on birthdays/Winter Star). It can be obtained from the Prize Machine, Golden Fishing Chests, the Helper's Bundle, or from the raccoon for completing requests.
Movie Theater: Inviting an NPC to the movies grants points based on movie and snack choices (Loved Movie: +200, Liked Movie: +100, Loved Concession: +50, Liked Concession: +25).
Conversations and Dialogue: Choosing appropriate responses in conversations can yield +10 to +50 points, while negative responses decrease friendship. Heart Events offer similar opportunities for significant friendship gains or losses (+/-200 points).
Festivals and Events:
- Flower Dance: Dancing with an NPC (4 hearts or higher) grants +250 points.
- Luau: Contributing to the community soup affects friendship with all villagers (Best Soup: +120, Good Soup: +60, Neutral: 0, Bad Soup: -50, Worst Soup: -100).
- Community Center (Bulletin Board Bundles): Completing all Bulletin Board bundles grants +500 points with each non-dateable villager.
This comprehensive guide provides a complete picture of Stardew Valley's friendship system, enabling players to cultivate strong relationships with Pelican Town's residents. Remember that thoughtful interactions and well-chosen gifts are the keys to success. The image locations remain unchanged.

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